Thursday, November 19, 2009

New haircut-courtesy my eight year old niece




Just the other day, Eshana my 8 yr old niece who is madly in love with Hannah Montana...suggested I have a haircut like that...Armed with a badge of Miley Cyrus, I dared to have one not quite the same but similar.....shes happy with the results....while taking this snap she wanted the fringe to be over the eye.....:)not quite so.........well i asked her advice and i got it! simple.....I am satisfied with the end result....At 8 she is already a teen......and at 39 I am also a teen...
so it matches......we argue, we sulk, we do homework together, we sing, we dance,
we fight over whos going to use the pc, and we babysit each other....oops I mean I babysit her.
She sees through my mock anger when she misbehaves.....my smile starts and she catches me...Bua she shouts...and giggles and I melt like chocolate on a hot day:)
Nisbat is infectious.......just cannot be away from it.

Sunday, November 15, 2009






Just an hour's drive from Panchkula, is a place called Morni Hills....THis picture is of the adventure park there....opposite TIKKAR lake.....lovely picturesque place and so near to the city....Another world out there!haryana Tourism has developed a camp site out there for picnics and it is well maintained....I was pretty impressed....
Boating, trekking, rock climbing can be arranged here for groups.
Eco friendly is the order of the day!

Friday, November 6, 2009

Pounta Sahib

Situated on the banks of river Yamuna, Pounta Sahib Gurudwara was an intrinsic experience for me last month. I stayed inside for 2 days.....langar....kirtan....yamuna.....what else could i have wanted....

Nearby is the Kirpal Shila gurudwara where the rock on which Gurujee meditated around 300 yrs ago still is worshipped......a serene place......delicious langar and jaljeera!

Thanks to a friend, I just happened to discover Pounta Sahib and got a peek into more of my root culture-Sikhism.......Guru Gobind Singh jee used to have a KAVI DARBAR in the olden days....still held every full moon night.....

Back in Chandigarh today I just close my eyes and am transported back to Pounta Sahib!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Kalesar Mahadev

A serene path......leafy, earthy leads to this beautiful forest temple of LORD SHIVA...I heard locals saying a magical medicine is prepared there called shiv amrut.
a herbal concoction which is made by the ayurvedic doctor.....People come from near and far with dreams of healing......the pundit claims the lingam in the temple is 4000 yrs old.....As i walk I look at the Yamuna river, dreaming back to the days when this temple must have been first created.....

I take the medicine-infallible hope in power of nature remedies:)
Its black liquid, very bitter! yet strong enough to evince an interest in my sense of inquiry.......There is aboard which says diseases like cancer, arthritis can be treated successfully...............


Shiv amrut-nectar of the gods the very name gave me healing sensations/vibrations.....
I return tomorrow after 15 days.......this time not for the amrut but for Shiva himself......

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Reflection

Time out.........to reflect...........to ruminate..........
the days have slipped to minutes and now moments..............experiencing each moment with awareness.......its a new vision.............its a mixed blessing.......
the journey intensifies........and with it comes a space....

Friday, August 14, 2009

Mcledo Ganj Nisbat

I visited Mcledo Ganj in March this year.......It was love at first sight....the narrow streets, the misty mountains, the international pot pourri of people ....it is enchanting and quaint......
I was back in June with my mother......I will return in August to work with JAAGO REE an ngo which works for rural women,......a tryst with real life......:)
Mumbai seems so distant now.....the land of Shiva beckons...

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

NAKO NISBAT








hey friends....am back after hibernation......have been traversing India's northern beauty....LAHAUL SPITI VALLEY.....this photo is at NAKO...gods own land.....I visited the temple with PADMASAMBHAVAS FOOTPRINTS......A BODDHISATVA OF MERIT.....
the lake here is so calm.........u can feel it.......vibrations of simplicity and peace and love resound in this small Tibetan village.....prayer flags carry messages of hope and cheer.........do visit it when u have the chance.....I can guide u how to go and where to stay........................lots of love

Sunday, June 7, 2009

nisbat with self

As i travel back to mumbai.....wondering in the universe.....where is my home....
this year amsterdam /uk/mumbai/pune/chandigarh/Bir were primary homes at various times......definitive? no.......permanent ? no.........purpose ful.........yes surely.......as i live moment to moment watching my own emotions-thoughts-in wondrous glory i marvel at my creator,,,,,our creator.....the khuda/god/deva/energy/light of which I am a part.....when problems get overwhelming or rather situations I open an atlas....and behold try to search for earth and then me.....yes i have my rightful place as all of us do have.....and yet the galaxies interconnect........and merge....
as the waves in the ocean.....the notes in musical masterpieces and in the voices of people around me.....the whispering of the trees......the sound of silence.....depths of my emotions......i watch wait breathe watch feel melt merge.....communicate around me with me in me....:) life is a miracle unfolding every moment.....

Friday, June 5, 2009

kasauli connect


THis picture is in Kasauli
nice slogan on Nature....my niece and myself were taking evening walk here....
lovely weather......and feeling good here...in the lap of nature

Sunday, May 31, 2009

sisters in love



Sometimes in life we come across people who are connected to us instantly....love at first sight..thats what happened with my sister in law pratima.....sisters in love.
its been many yrs since i first met her....though physically distant....there was underlying nisbat.....this photo has been taken in Bhagsunag....near Baijnath.....
our current favourite photo:)

Sunday, May 17, 2009

BIR RING connection


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rOCdKcNjCZg

Bir forest has been a wonderful experience...
healing
spiritual
relaxing
connection to inner essences
This place facilitates all this and more

Friday, May 8, 2009

village connection



Roshan and myself ....in a village near Purushwadi......a project of village stays in Maharashtra....u can see the delight on my face as I really enjoy taking this pic....
spontaneous and fun

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

across the seas




I connected with Kynsley-my friend from WNS days after 5 yrs...He is now in Australia and working in a profile -mix of law/justice/police/social welfare....
am very proud of him......He wanted to visit ganeshpuri however since I have been a gypsy he could not get in touch with me......I wish him all the best and am happy I met him just before he flew ....to Australia

Sunday, March 15, 2009

MEHERBAANI

Yesterday I visited Meherabad, 6 kms from Ahmednagar-Maharashtra-India.
Its a pilgrimage spot of Meher Baba.....the Samadhi shrine is situated there.....

Its a beautiful, serene place spread over 2000 acres of land...I lived in the hostel accomodation.....The Samadhi shrine is very artistic and aesthetic....with murals on the walls...and the aarti every morning and evening is universal in nature....right from devotional songs in English/Hindi/Marathi to South Indian are sung there.
The walk from the hostel to the shrine connects one to Natures essence.....

The Nizbat of the self, the Nizbat of the divine both intermingled there

Monday, March 9, 2009

Crystal connection

Yesterday I visited the Gargoti mineral museum in Nasik,Maharashtra.
It has a collection of crystal fromations found in mines all over India and some from abroad. The collection is vivid and varied. Very well maintained......
The museum also showcases a moon fragment and one from Mars......interesting stuff..

Metaphysicians, crystal healers and even lovers of art visit this place to have a collection.The Shiuva lingas from Narmada river were enthralling. So were the Ganesh crsytals from hIMALAYAS.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

GRASS ROUTES

"I just knew I didnt want to work in chemistry, but wanted to do something different" says Inir, a strikingly tall science graduate armed with an MBA. "And in the corporate world, there is little concern for anything but the self anf profitability. I didn't want to sell my soul to this, but instead wanted to figure out if there was more to life than profit." So how did he go about that?

For the past three years, having set up and run Grassroutes, a sustainable rural tourism project, Inir has managed to turn around the fortunes of villagers in Maharastra, whilst at the same time give urban dwellers the chance to experience the simple joys of Indian country life.

"Although I haven't travelled as much as I would have liked around India, I had seen enough of the country to realise that we needed changemakers." And change is what Inir has brought to two villages just over 200km outside of Mumbai. Since 2006, he has focused his enrgies on training villagers to be guides, hosts and cooks to tourists from nearby Mumbai and Pune, so that they can enjoy India's abundant natural environment, and of course savour the delights of seasonal produce cooked by local women. "We've targeted people form cities who have somehow lost the ability to watch a bird, use their own hands to grow plants or simply sit idle and watch an amazing sunset."

His efforts are helping to transform the lives of the villagers by providing an alternative means of income, which has alsohelped to stem the seemingly inevitable migration of villagers to cities. "Because there isn't any employment in the village" explained one of the female hosts, "usually one parent would have to move away to look for work. But now with the tourists coming, we can both stay in the village and live like a proper family." Three years on, the villagers have welcomed families, youth groups, college students and have also hosted a number of corporate team-building away days.

Inir explains that despite the fatigue, confusion and long days, he has experienced a personal journey the he could not ever have dreamed of. "I have been able to have heartfelt conversations with farmers in their local language, with heads of some top multinational companies and everyone inbetween. I have learnt a lot about myself and am grateful to be fulfilling a dream of mine to try to address some of the disturbing balances that I see around me." He goes onto add, "I've had a very decent life and right now I have the time, freedom and space to do this kind of work. My family and friends have been amazingly supportive in my endeavour, even if they still dont quite understand why I'm doing it when it is not highly paid!" he says laughingly.

So has Inir found the alternative to profi and corporate life? "I've learnt many things, but especially that there is wealth not only in money, but also in people, communities and traditions."

Saturday, January 31, 2009

2009

Connecting back to people after my travel last 3 months has been unique experience....
Looking back, reflecting, channelising through the various interactions I had with all of you .......brings out something new each time......Renewal.....just like seasons, earth cycles, relationships, redefinitions .........
While training we emphasise on reiteration......guess life also is like that....

Some friends ask me what keeps me going, what makes me tick...how can I smile and laugh so much......these little nuances of life.....sharings.....helping friends....friends seeking help.....the sun set in Nimboli-Fire mountain Mandagini...the straw huts,,,,,the children running barefoot in scorching sun......the temple bells ringing and the pretty bead trinkets bought from the village fair.........the hope that today is better than yesterday and the belief that tomorrow will be the best......the reiteration through Vedas till power of now.........LIVE IN THE MOMENT ....yet live an eternity in a moment.....

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Me Myself

Last few weeks have been busy , reflecting contemplating......ruminating.
Just finished devising some training content for emotions management and empathy for nurses......Ganeshpuri is very rejuvenating as usual......its bit chilly now....

Nowadays my connection to self and body awareness is increasing......Questions about my life purpose keep on bouncing at me from inner voice, from close friends and associates......Its fascinating to experience inner engineering.......

2009 has been named year of astronomy......for someone like me thats exciting! stars and planets enthrall me:) I always wonder what is in Andromedia galaxy?
And people find it amusing when i ask them their zodiacs.....hmmmmmm......

Nizbat has a birth date...was conceived in Nimboli...a village near Ganeshpuri in front of Mandagani a sacred mountain......in May 2008......Taurean perhaps....

Its overwhelming to discover love in subtle ways and forms and not in conventional compartments our society has defined....
for me 2008 brought LOVE the strongest emotion on this planet to the fore.....and caught my attention wherever I went......

Unconditional love...........was alien to me few years ago......am on its journey now......finally......